Thursday, November 27, 2025

Calm Within Chaos by Paul DeRenzo

 


Genre:  Nonfiction

Source: I received a copy to facilitate my review. The opinions expressed here are my own.

As a middle school teacher I found this book to be a wealth of knowledge. The author has definitely done a lot of work with teens.  The first section talks about emotions and how to learn to regulate them.  The first thing is to understand emotions and how and why teens react to them the way they do. There is an entire section on how to deal with those emotions and a quiz at the end.

The fifth chapter talks about resiliency. This to me was one of the most important chapter. The reason I found this chapter so important is because we have resiliency lessons  every month at school. We are teaching them some of the same things that this book teaches. The book is far superior to the simple lesson we give once a month. The author explains what resiliency is and why it is important to our mental health.  This is a practical guide for teens, parents and anyone. I say anyone because teens aren’t the only ones who need to learn to regulate and deal with their emotions.  This should be used in every school.  Great book that every parent should have.


Wednesday, November 26, 2025

Hiding in Holland by Shulamit Reinharz


Genre:  Biography, Memoir, Non-Fiction, Adult
Source:  I received a copy from the author. The opinions expressed here are my own.

                Let me start by saying that I have loved reading about this part of history since I was twelve and learned I shared a birthday with Anne Frank. I was fascinated by the resilience of the Jewish people. I was fascinated by kindness and often the sacrifice of their own lives that a handful of non-Jewish people showed in the face of such atrocious adversity. John 15:13 says, Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.” In the case of the holocaust, often the person who laid down their life for the Jews were total strangers, yet they exhibited true love.  When I read these stories and memoirs I find myself angry at those who saw what was happening to their neighbors and did nothing and then when the war had ended tried to pretend like they knew nothing or that it was all a lie.  Those same feelings came back as I read where Max had returned to his hometown and this was the attitude of so many. So many still blamed the Jews.  

                This book starts of with the author finding boxes of old documents which her father tells her she can throw out. Instead she takes them home and organizes them. She cobles together an account of her father’s survival and resistance to the Nazi atrocities around him. It is obvious that he saw himself as more than just a survivor of the atrocities thrust upon the Jewish people. It was years later after discovering and organizing the materials that she finally had them translated. She used those findings along with massive amounts of her own research to write this book. One thing that became clear was the importance of keeping alive memories. Not all of us have gone through something so horrific. However, memories of our past and those of our parents and grandparents are important. Does that mean we should all write books about what our parents went through? No. However, the importance of documenting not only good times, but extreme hardship is what may make the difference in future generations not repeating mistakes and atrocities of the past.

                I was shocked to learn that Jews who were not real strict followers of their Jewish religion often survived compared to those who stuck religiously to their Jewish beliefs.

When I read the percentage of murdered Jews from different countries, I was shocked to learn that 85% of the Dutch Jews were wiped out compared to other countries.  It still boggles my mind that we as humans could let something like this happen. Yet for centuries we have allowed this to happen.  One thing that stood out in this memoir is found in the following excerpt where the author explains why and how her parents survived the German occupation. She mentions what her father considered the most important lesson he learned. He said, “There are some good people in this world.”  The author said, “Dad’s belief is not to be confused with Anne Frank’s naïve idea that there is ‘some good in everyone.’”  As a teacher I have taught “The Diary of Anne Frank” for years. I don’t know how many times I have pointed out that quote.  It wasn’t until I read this book that I truly see how naïve she truly was.  This is not a put down to her. I believe we all want to believe that there is good in everyone. However, after reading this book I actually have to agree with the author’s father’s statement.  If there was “some good in everyone” then those who stood by and let the Nazis do what they did, or turned their neighbors in for money, we would have to conclude there was more evil than good in them.

    For me one of the things I really loved about this book is all the references.  Obviously, the author did so much more research to add to her father’s accounts.  For me it just added so much more for me to read to add to my own understanding. I as a non-Jew can never understand what they went through. However, I can increase my understanding of those times to try to pass that knowledge on to future generations. I highly recommend this book to anyone who wants to learn more about the holocaust.


 

Monday, November 24, 2025

He's Not a Pig; He's My Brother by Mark Tiffany

 

Genre: Children's Chapter Book

Source:  Purchased

In this great adventure Carter, acting as the big brother decides he should be the alpha. He claims since they came from wolves that have an alpha leader, and since he is the oldest, he should be the alpha. He tells his half-brother Jack that he gets first choice on everything.  Jack disagrees. This causes an argument and Jack and Carter stop talking. Their human parents can see the issue and are not sure what has caused it. Matthew decides they need to follow the advice of a dog whisperer. When he becomes the alpha Carter doesn't like it. While watching a TV commercial about pig races Carter gets the bright idea to become a pig racer. There is just one issue, he isn't a pig. Carter runs away  to the fair where the pig races are held. He disguises himself and joins in the races.  His parents and half brother look for him everywhere. Finally Jack writes a letter to the pig racer man asking about his brother. He decides to go and look for him. When Matthew and Erin realize that Jack is also gone they become even more sad. Will Jack find his brother and convince him to come home?  Will Matthew and Erin ever see their beloved pets again?  I loved how the book shows that love can overcome just about anything.  I am really enjoying the books by this author.